Sovereign Strategies to Get the Respect You Deserve

The Sovereign Archetype commands respect simply by being who she is. She firmly recognises her intrinsic worth and maintains high self-esteem.

Respect manifests in two primary forms: the respect we have for ourselves and the respect we receive from others. These are deeply interconnected.

Let's consider the consequences of lacking self-respect. It can lead to negative patterns in relationships, indulging in harmful habits, and being treated poorly by others. When you lack self-respect, it becomes difficult to gain respect from others. Think about the people you know who have low self-respect and compare them to those who have a strong sense of self-worth. The contrast typically shows that people with greater respect lead more fulfilling lives. Hence, enhancing your self-respect can significantly improve your life quality.

So, how can you improve the respect you receive from yourself and others?

Here are some strategies to boost your self-respect and ensure others respect you:

1. Practice self-forgiveness for your mistakes. Just like you have compassion and forgiveness for others, extend the same to yourself. Nobody is perfect, so it's unfair to expect perfection from yourself.

2. Live according to your values. Respect yourself by living in alignment with your beliefs and preferences. You have your own set of values, and compromising them to please others is unnecessary. Your values should be your top priority.

3. Be selective about who you allow into your life. Just as you wouldn't allow anyone into your child's life, be discerning with your social circle. Surround yourself with quality individuals and have high standards. The people you surround yourself with can either lift you up or bring you down.

4. Take care of yourself. You deserve the best. This includes eating healthily, exercising, getting enough sleep, and taking care of your appearance. Prioritise your well-being and don't rely on others to do so.

5. Avoid comparing yourself to others. You are unique and should not compare yourself to anyone else. Comparing yourself to others diminishes your individuality. Instead, compare yourself to your past self.

6. Pursue your dreams. Your desires and passions are valid. Don't give up on your dreams easily and live a life that excites you. Don't let others dictate your path, even if it goes against their expectations.

7. Don't worry about others' opinions. If you're content with yourself and your life, other people's opinions hold no value. Caring too much about what others think is a form of disrespect towards yourself.

8. Practice self-compassion. Avoid self-deprecating thoughts and speak kindly to yourself. Treat yourself with the same kindness and respect that you would show to someone you admire.

9. Don't settle. You deserve nothing but the best. Don't lower your standards for anything or anyone.

10. Be honest. Dishonesty stems from a lack of self-respect. Be open about your beliefs and preferences, both with yourself and others. If someone asks for your opinion and you lie or say that you don't care, you're disrespecting yourself.

Self-respect and self-esteem go hand in hand. Strive to be someone you would be proud to show the world. It's doubtful that happiness can be achieved without self-respect. Therefore, there is much to gain by respecting yourself. Respect yourself and others, and the world will give you the respect you deserve.